Being single in Vietnam - another viewpoint
On the other hand.... when I arrived in Sa Pa just before day break, the Hotel in which I had a day room was dark, and locked tight. It was the “Cat Cat Hotel”, named for a nearby “ethnic village”. I was all for going across the street to get a cup of coffee but my trustworthy guide (Sinh) insisted on calling the night clerk. He soon arrived to open up the Hotel – all smiles, and explaining that he’d been at a party the evening before as was a bit “hungover”. I never got to know his name, so I nick-named him “Mr. Friendly”. He was/is a Vietnamese of Chinese background. His English was flawless. His personality was filled with bubbly bonhomie. After my sleep and shower he and I chatted. He told me that he was very happy because he was going to his home village for the Tet holiday. I asked about his family. He told me that he had an older brother. Then he added “I am happy that I have an older brother because it’s his responsibility to take care of my...