He always was so grumpy.
"He" is a man who walks his Scottish Terrier in the neighbouring community of Glen Oaks Manor. He, the man not the dog, would scarcely acknowledge my cheery greetings. That was until about two months ago when, out of the blue, he ventured that his wife was a chronic alcoholic, and that life was tough for her, and for him. A few weeks later I asked this comparative stranger the awkward question "how is your wife?" "She is in Hospice" he replied. I uttered/muttered/spluttered some "comments of the pablum type", whilst trying to convey my belief that advanced alcoholism is a deadly disease, and that I understood his pain, his anger,his frustration. I simply do not know him well enough to have a deep conversation. Maybe he did not need such a conversation with me. I saw him and his dog on Thanksgiving Eve. I had no idea whether or not his wife was still alive. I asked "do you have plans for tomorrow?" He replied ...