You Probably Will Not See This Man on Friday 24th



His name is Bernard. He is my senior brother in law; the husband of my oldest (and older) sister Maureen.

 You will not see him because  (a) he lives in Bristol U.K); or (b) because of the U.K. shelter in place policies which he observes rigorously. 

 I wish that you could see, and know him.   Bern is a man of deep faith in God; of utter integrity; and of tender love for his wife and extended family.

 He is a man of few words; and even fewer judgments.  He is loved deeply by his four children and their spouses; his six grandchildren and one great grandchild  .     and by his wider family of in-laws (I am one),

 On Friday 24th  Bern will celebrate his 90th birthday.

No party of course, but three of his four children; their spouses and their children  will gather at the street end of Bern and Maureen's front garden; then serenade him as he and Maureen  wait just outside their front door  (about 10' away). Then they'll all eat cupcakes.

 Anne, their fourth child lives in London, so she and her husband and daughter will join the party via a video link.

 HAPPY 90th  BIRTHDAY  DEAR BERN.  You are the best!

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